Oh, thank you. There was a scene in 'sex, lies and videotape' with Andy McDowell and the bloke she'd left her husband and uptight life for, sitting on the steps. Ever since, to me, that scenario has epitomised that feeling of being relaxed and unaffected and contented together as a couple, and somehow of having got to the point in the relationship you wanted to get to, where you can draw breath and reflect a bit. That's where that came from - not very original, but I'm so glad it came across to you.
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